A practical way through betrayal trauma, built for mothers
The Rebuild is a stage by stage course for mothers navigating betrayal trauma, whether you stay, leave, or do not know yet. Find steadier ground, make clearer decisions, and be more present with your children.
Where you are now
The Rebuild addresses your most common struggles and pain points, so you don't have to figure it out on your own. My team and I will walk you through each stage, and equip you with tools and resources so you can make informed decisions from a place of clarity.
“I can't stop checking. I need to know everything.”
Hypervigilance is not paranoia. It is your nervous system using the only tool it has left, and it never gives you the certainty you are looking for.
How to build real safety and real boundaries instead of surveillance, and how to steady yourself enough to think clearly again.
“I don't know if I'm leaving or staying.”
Everyone has an opinion and none of them are living your life. This decision can't be made from inside the shock.
How to separate the decision from the crisis, and what to put in place financially and practically so both paths stay open.
“I'm hiding from my kids and I feel like a terrible mother.”
The noise, the meltdowns, the endless demands, on top of a life that just came apart. Some days you disappear.
Reclaiming Motherhood: staying present, regulating in the moment, and repairing the bond with your children.
More ways this may be showing up
The first weeks, when the ground is gone.
Running through all four stages: Reclaiming Motherhood, plus a resource list with free, low cost and personalized options at every step.
A different way forward
01Working through it in secret, with no support
02Frantically searching for resources at 3am
03Overwhelmed by options, unable to pick one
04Stuck in survival mode, missing motherhood
05Years lost to the "sad single mom" narrative
01Accepting that this was never meant to be carried alone
02Leaning on vetted people and referrals
03Following a framework, stage by stage
04A roadmap, and a way back to your children
05Coming out of it healthier than before
Built from lived experience
Harvard grad, former NASA and Silicon Valley engineer
Betrayal trauma arrived days after I gave birth to my second baby. I was postpartum, with a newborn and two-year-old, and no roadmap for how to get through it. Slowly and painfully, I applied my analytical mind (the one I had built my career on) and faced my crisis with the same approach: structure, research-backed tools, and one practical step at a time.
My children are the reason I fought to heal. I've come such a long way - I owe it to share what I've learned to help other moms who are going through something similar. The Rebuild is the course I needed when my life was falling apart, with lessons drawn from what I've personally lived and tested.
Read Jojo's full storyWith expert perspective
Marriage and family therapist
The clinical side of betrayal trauma, from someone licensed to speak to it.
Financial advisor
Money, because it decides how many choices you actually have.
Real estate agent and advisor
Moving out, the hardest logistical piece of the first year.
Founding offer
I spent over $70,000 in various forms of therapy, treatment centers, retreats, online programs, and dozens of books, podcasts and courses to build the system that's in this course.
Join the waitlist to get notified when the course goes live, with a special discount for the first 200 people as a token of our appreciation!
Before you decide
Not ready for the full course? Start with the free workbook.